Relationship coaching

Keep the Spark Alive

Together for a while

Maybe you’ve been together for a while. There might be kids, busy schedules, and endless to-dos—and sometimes you can feel the routine creeping in. That’s the last thing you want. You’d love to keep your relationship fresh and playful, like when you first met.

Grow Side by Side

Relationship coaching with Petra offers a regular check-in—ideally once a month—where you both get the space to really talk. It’s a place for the conversations that never seem to happen at home, and for the thoughts you might hesitate to share without a neutral, supportive listener. Some couples simply want to grow together. One session might focus on you, the next on your partner. Over time, you become true witnesses to each other’s growth and transformation.

Work Through Triggers

Every couple has moments that bring old wounds to the surface. These triggers are normal—and they can also be opportunities. In coaching, you’ll explore them together in a safe space, so you both heal and move forward. So, each trigger becomes a powerfull gift to yourself and to each other.

Deepen Your Commitment

Relationship coaching is for couples who want to nurture a deeper bond and are ready to make it real.

Unlike therapy, we don’t dig endlessly into the past. Instead, you’ll get practical tools, fresh insights, and clear next steps. Think of it as regular maintenance for your relationship—a dedicated time to reconnect and have the conversations that daily life often pushes aside.

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Tantra

A unique way to deepen your relationship.

This is Petra’s approach to tantra and how she guides couples through these sessions.

Before the Session

You might notice that:

You feel little or no connection with yourself.
You struggle to connect with your own feelings.
You find it difficult to truly connect with your partner.
There’s a sense of imbalance or inequality in the relationship.
Intimacy feels blocked or distant.

During the Session

In a tantra session, you will:

Reconnect with yourself.
Deepen your inner connection.
Learn to connect fully and openly with your partner.
Step into equality, creating balance and harmony.
Move from tension and blockage into flow.

After the Session

The effects can be profound:

You experience a sense of freedom within yourself.
You enjoy your own company and feel comfortable being alone.
You no longer fear connecting with your partner and can truly enjoy the bond.
You feel less need for power struggles—and if they appear, you can acknowledge them with awareness.
You feel open and free.
You are able to give and receive love fully.
You step fully into your personal power and into life.
You communicate clearly, without guilt or shame.

Tantra sessions are only for couples. These sessions are no quick fix, but a deepening and profound process, you both step into. No massage is involved.

Tantrasessies zijn enkel voor koppels. Er is geen massage.

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Sex coaching

Focus on now and the future.

While sexual therapy often focuses on problems and looks to the past, sex coaching is all about the present and what lies ahead.

Individual sex coaching

Sex coaching is for you if you:

Have questions about sexuality, no matter how specific.
Wonder about your sexual orientation.
Have never had sex.
Struggle to talk openly about sexuality.
Wonder about your own or your partner’s libido.
Suspect sexual or porn addiction.
Want practical tips and guidance around sex.
Find it hard to express your sexual desires.
Feel shame around sex.
Have trouble setting boundaries.
Have experienced boundary-crossing behavior.

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Sex coaching for couples

Sex coaching is for couples if you:

Want to bring new energy and excitement into your sex life.
Want to learn how to talk openly about sex.
Want to better understand your partner’s sexual needs and desires.
Want to communicate clearly about what each of you wants.
Want to know what your partner truly needs.

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Intimacy Coaching

While sex coaching focuses on respect, trust, safety, and expressing your boundaries and desires—with practical, actionable tips—intimacy coaching goes deeper, focusing on the emotional connection between you and your partner.

Sex coaching helps you harness your sexual energy, making your sex life more fulfilling. Intimacy coaching, on the other hand, strengthens emotional bonds, improves communication, and builds trust.

Emotional Connection

In intimacy coaching, you’ll work on communicating more openly about your emotions, setting clear boundaries, and building trust. The sessions create a safe space where you can deepen your connection—starting with yourself and then extending to your partner.

Emotional Safety

True intimacy is about feeling emotionally safe. How comfortable are you opening up completely to your partner? Do you have walls or attachment patterns that hold you back? These often stem from past experiences or even early childhood—but they can block deep, authentic connection in the present.

Petra guides you to lower these walls and release pent-up emotions. In a supportive, non-judgmental space, you’ll be seen and heard for who you truly are. She helps you recognize and name your emotions—and then communicate them openly.

Sometimes emotional blocks need to be cleared to connect fully with your heart. Petra helps you do just that, so you can approach life and relationships from your heart instead of your mind. Many people live according to roles rather than their authentic selves. Intimacy coaching helps you reconnect with your true self and break free from limiting patterns.

Letting go of ego and tuning into your feelings, body, and essence takes courage—but it’s worth it. The closer you get to yourself, the closer and more intimate you can be with your partner. You’ll strengthen your bond while stepping more fully into your own power.

Have questions or need guidance? Don’t hesitate to reach out to Petra. A first phone call or email is always free and without obligation.

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"You are me and I am you.
Isn't it obvious that we "inter-are"?
You cultivate the flower in yourself,
so that I will be beautiful.
I transform the garbage in myself,
so that you will not have to suffer.
I support you;
you support me.
I am in this world to offer you peace;
You are in this world to bring me joy."

Thich Nhat Hanh